It starts with a dream
Pursuing romantic partnerships and true happiness is not a one-size-all solution. It’s delicate, raw, and nuanced.
I help women identify behaviors that keep them stuck in relationships, providing gentle accountability that helps them make positive changes that lead to healthier more meaningful relationships with my 1-1 coaching program.
It can be scary, but trust me - it’s worth it. Let’s jump off those cliffs and clear space so we can make your Love Story a reality. I’ll be your ‘lil romantic reset Cupid, holding your hand throughout the way.
As if time is running out and that you are already too far behind
You are struggling to make a big decision to stay or go with a career, a relationship, where to live, and other important life decisions
Something might be wrong with you - why does everyone else seem so happy in their relationship? Am I crazy to feel like something feels "off" with my relationship? Why am I still single? Why can't I make happily-ever-after happen?
There are fewer and fewer decent romantic options out there, and you are just going to have to settle or end up single the rest of your life
You are going to lose yourself in a relationship or worried you are already too far gone and it's too late to try again
It just won't work out for you, and you won't get to experience the type of healthy love-story-kinda love and build the life you always imagined
Does this sound like you?
I have been there, and I promise things can and will get better.
There is nothing you can share with me that will shock me. It’s so easy to get stuck in a rut and think there is no where to go but down. Let’s go UP together. Somehow, saying no to the things that we know are keeping us miserable are the hardest thing to let go of.
Let’s make a plan together and do this. I got you.
I'll help you through...
I'll help you through...
Telling the truth even if the consequences are harsh
Moving back in with your parents
Ugly crying
Adult temper tantrums
When you are in the fetal position on the ground alone and too embarrassed to reach out to anyone of your friends
And much more
Divorce attorneys
First dates
Situation-ships
Setting boundaries
Quitting your job
Starting over
Nervous breakdowns
The few days before your period
Big triggers
Blocks
Scary decisions
Avoidance
Anxiety
Ambivalence
Analysis Paralysis
Breakups
My Services
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If you want to achieve our well-deserved Love Story, you'll have to start from the beginning. Let's break through your comfort zone and make active changes to get you where you want to be. Well explore the situation you're currently in involving:
Starting your life over “From scratch.”
Separation & Divorce
Infidelity
Codependency & Addiction
Single & Relocating to a new city/state/country
Being Single & Dating after a long-term life partnership/Marriage.
Leaving a life-long career and starting over via your own business and a new career path entirely
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Big changes with lasting results start with your mind. Your dreams are there for a reason, and it's time to start believing in them and take tangible action. I will help you with the following:
Tools for coping with anxious, negative, and obsessive thinking
Manifestation & Visualization
Healthy daily routines tailored to you to get you on track
Spirituality
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Now, we are getting to the juicy part! When we clear space for your Love Story to come in, I'll help you with the following:
What the heck do you even want?
Empowered & conscious dating
Attachment styles
Boundaries to protect your heart, body, and mind that align with your highest self
Female sensuality & intimacy mental blocks
Masculine & Feminine Dynamics & Superpowers
Cycle Diet & Lifestyle
I’m not here to give you generic “sacred feminine” advice to simply “not text him first” and regurgitate what you’ve already seen on social media.
We all know deep down the right thing to do, but it’s our impulses, belief symptoms, and comfort zone that keep us there.
Sometimes we need a helping hand. I am here to shake up your life in a good way and give you custom care that will change your life indefinitely.
We are going to do a deep dive into ALL aspects of your life and formulate the Love Story Life you’ve always wanted and pave the way to get you there.
How it works
Our process will be tailor made just for you. Below is a sample of what I’ve done for past clients so you can get an idea of how we will work together.
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I offer a 1:1 coaching service where we go ALL in for 90 days. We deeply dive into your life, what your soul craves, what needs to change to get where you want to be, and how to change it.
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Time: 1-2 Weeks
In this phase we establish safety and trust. I get to know you: your dreams, your needs, your fears, your desires. We establish best methods of support and how we’re going to be communicating over the next 90 days. I got you. I’m here to be your warm cozy blanket guide of trust, hope, non-judgement, and guidance so that this can be an effective and nurturing process.
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Time: 2-3 weeks
Stop habitually complaining, start dreaming. It’s easy to get lost. When we keep finding ourselves in the same scenario, scrolling through IG and finding ways to justify the pain we are in, we forget what we ultimately DO want for ourselves and our love lives. Fantasy to Fiction: I’ll work with you and give you the tools to help you understand and envision what you do want. Stop thinking about what you want in the context of other people’s opinions, and start thinking about what YOU want for yourself and your one precious life.
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Time: 2-3 weeks
Let's give those unproductive behaviors an 80's montage makeover: We can’t control fate and love, but we can look inward and take a good honest look at the sorts of behaviors we are participating in that are keeping those dreams from becoming a reality. In this phase, we are going to do some spring cleaning on the conscious and subconscious behaviors that come from a wounded place, and figure out not just what we are doing, why we are doing this, and what sort of things you can do now to start actively making changes in your life. This is not going to only improve your ability to find love, but it will absolutely change all the other aspects of your life for the better. This ability to self regulate and make conscious (sometimes really difficult) decisions and behaviors is where the real magic happens. And I will be here holding your hand with gentle but effective accountability to help you get there.
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Time: 2-3 weeks
We all have different values, needs, and triggers. In this phase we will figure out what exactly YOUR needs are, that line up with your dreams, and what sort of practices we can do to maintain those needs and protect your heart, so that we don’t take a one way trip to self-abandonment. We will also review your day-to-day life/schedule, with recommended changes to further optimize your environment for evolution & growth.
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Time: 2-3 weeks
It’s time to put 2.0 you into action and figure out a plan for how to go about future relationships! In this phase, we are going to work through all of your desires and how you can apply that to how you flirt, date, and show up in a relationship; both emotionally and physically. We come up with a lasting plan for how you can take the lessons we went through and apply them into all areas of your life. You will feel like a different person. And you won’t go back to who you were before, and I will make sure you have what you need to keep going on your gorgeous journey in your love story life.
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I will be available by text, voice memo, e-mail, IG, carrier pigeon, etc., to help you move through the good, the bad, and the ugly. We will have weekly calls for a virtual “face-to-face” to keep the structure going. In my experience, most self-actualization, significant change, and magic happen between formal sessions.
A Little About Me
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A Little About Me *
Hi, Im Carolyn
*But this is not my cat
I grew up in Houston, Texas and have lived in India and Budapest, traveled solo across the US before settling in Santa Cruz, California, where I currently call my home.
I’ve done some pretty pitiful things for the sake of love that were absolutely not aligned with my “highest self”. I know not only how it feels on the other side of jumping off some pretty scary existential cliffs, but how to jump off and land safely.
Not only am I a coach to help you clear the space to get your Love Story Life started, I am also a licensed CPA. I have been studying personal growth and relationships for the last decade +. When I say I’ll help you get your life in order, I’m talking all aspects; romance, friendships, finance, career, starting over, desperation, loneliness, credit scores, relocation, physical intimacy (multiple orgasms if you are into that sorta thing), doing the thing that scares you the most, etc.
I fundamentally believe that women are absolutely wonderful. When all our needs are met, we are made of pure magic. Having removed blocks in my life that prevented me from seeing the enchanted way to live, I know how much better it is on the other side for not just you, but those around you and the world you are in. My passion is to help women be the the truest version of themselves.
I promise it will get better. Sometimes we need a little help to get us out of a rut - and I am here for you to do just that!
